Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Hospice
I am sorry I did not post yesterday. I just didn't know what to say. We were waiting till we met with the Hospice doctor and when we did we were hit with a lot of information and had to move quickly. We have decided after visiting with the Hospice people, Dr Barnett (Oncology), Dr VanHook (Pulmonary), and the Neurosurgeon that our next step is to make him comfortable in his last days. We went to the Hospice Care Center located in Louisville and we feel that it would be a good place to move him to. He would have a private room and we could stay there with him at all times of the day. They would help him with pain management so that he will not suffer. He did not do well with the swallow test and so there is not a way for him to receive any nourishment other than from the IV. This has been a very hard decision to make but we know the Lord has us in His hands and is guiding us through this process. We will take a miracle if there is one with his name on it. He has become more sleepy over the last few days which we were told is his body's way of letting go and the cancer taking over. Pray for us and that we are making the right decision. It is hard to not second guess when you have someones life in your hands. Thank you so much for following us and being here to lend a shoulder to cry on and with!! We love you ALL!!!
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Our heartfelt thoughts are with you. I will continue to pray that God gives you the strength to endure what you are all going through. Know that there are so many people thinking and praying for you and may you find comfort in their words.
ReplyDeleteThe Podliskas- Shane, Joy, Riley, Connor and Grace
We are praying for an awareness of God's strength and presence for each of you. When we saw Dave yesterday Mark asked him if he had asked Jesus into his heart and Dave said "Yes, and He stayed, and I'm in Jesus' arms"...hold on to that! It's hard for all of you to let go but we trust Christ will provide for all of your needs as you go through this journey...
ReplyDeleteWe are glad you have the amazing support of Boulder County Hospice, one of, if not the best, in the nation. A larger than life guy, like you, Dave, and your wonderful family deserve the finest! These fabulous people will give you the highest quality of life and the greatest support while allowing you to have some control over what's happening.
ReplyDeleteHospice is about helping you love life and one another. We're all eligible for that kind of care, we just haven't signed the enrollment forms.
We hope you flunk Hospice (it's happened), but until then, you're in great hands. Let us know when we can visit.
Love and hugs,
Cindy and Neil
I am praying you all find comfort, strength and peace with placing Dave in God's hands. We
ReplyDeleteknow Jesus will reach out and take Dave's hand in His time, just as we know He has a wonderful life ahead for eternity. We love you all and are here if you need us.
Love, Terri and Tom
May God's peace and strength be with you. We're praying for you and love you all so much.
ReplyDeleteLove, The Miller Family
I wish I could be there with you guys. I just want you to know how much I love you all and that I will keep you in my prayers. I am so encouraged by your trust in the Lord. I pray that his peace and rest will surround you as you continue to trust in Him.
ReplyDeleteMy love to you all.
Dinah
Paula and I wish so much that we could be there for you. The family has made a courageous decision to put Dave in God's hands. We will continue to pray for Dave, Candie and the rest of the family. Miracles have happened - We will pray for one.
ReplyDeleteOur love to all.
Dorian and Paula
I just read the latest blog and my heart is filled with a ache that I can't describe...Our prayers will be every minute of every day as all your friends and families surely are. Dave, you filled the room with your presence!Every trip that you made to N.P.was special, and when I would see you...My Heart would light up and the laughter would begin! I love you and Candie and your family. My God keep you all in the palm of his ever- loving hands. Hang in there....Patty & Jack
ReplyDeleteSarah, Candie & Dave:
ReplyDeleteThanks for blogging and keeping us all informed- it helps to know how to pray for all of you.
Dave: We sang "Home on the Range" at Rotary on Thursday- you were sorely missed!
Grace & Peace
Tom Moore
We are stunned and deeply saddened by Dave's condition and the gut wreching decisions that you all have had to make.
ReplyDeleteYou are all in our thoughts and prayers daily.
God bless you all,
The Aherns
Scheys:
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear about the past couple days. I love you all. I also hope and pray for the best. Love you Dave.
Vance Brown.
Scott and Jill Pierpont said...
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Our thoughts are with you and your family. Your courageous decision is just another show of strength that has prevailed throughout the Schey family legacy. May peace and tranquility accompany you forever.
Sarah,
ReplyDeleteWe are so saddened by the events of the past few days and are keeping you all in our constant prayers. We even have our own band of prayer warriors lifting you up here in the OC. We will continue to pray for strength and peace. Wish we were there to give you lots of hugs! We love you!
Love,
Deb, Scott, Em and Nola
David and Candie, I am stunned and saddened with the news. Scott forwarded this to me. Oh, it just seems so unfair. I agree with my brother Scott's, and Jill's sentiments. You are indeed showing bravery, and courage. You are so much a part of our history. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sending you so much love, Melanie Pierpont
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